Sunday, April 29, 2012

mata duitan????


Assalamualaikum....

Lately saya agak sibuk sebab encik suami baru jer balik.pepaham la kan bila si seafarer dah balik..isteri dan anak2 happy sgt n want to spend each quality time together sampai tak terlayan menda lain.kalau kes mcm saya ni,mmg langsung tak sempat nak bukak blog.

Haritu masa hubby bgtau reliever dah naik kapal n dia akan sign off dalam masa terdekat kat next port..tapi asyik delay jer sampai saya jd stress.ada jer masalahnya.walaupun dah biasa dgn kes delay2 ni tapi tiap kali rasa mesti akan stress gak.jadi kengkawan geng kapal yg close dengan saya akan pujuk saya n kata...

"more days so more money"
"okla lambat,yg penting duit jalan"

Agaknya kalau org tahu pujukan kawan2 saya ni adakah saya dan kawan2 saya akan dilabel sebagai mata duitan?????

Sebenarnya itu jerla menda yg boleh pujuk hati kami.bukan duit yg kami kejar tapi nak tak nak kena gak terima bila hubby delay tuk sign off.janji esok,tapi esoknya kata esok plak..sampai anak saya yg 4tahun tu tanya bila papa dia balik n saya jawab esok dia kata.."banyaknya esok ma"..

Jadi tuk kurangkan stress,kami akan fikir,takperla lambat off paling kurang gaji jalan so kami akan ada extra lagi duit tuk lebih lama hubby kat darat.kalau tak fikir camtu mmg stress menjadi2.

So okla...pada kengkawan yg mungkin tertunggu hubby off sebab delay jadi nasihat saya..

Be happy coz more days means more money.

Take care.

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5 comments:

  1. this is unavoidable situation, which seamen dont want to go home after preparing to sign off.

    more days more money is a common phrase as a consolation to colleague too, to whom about to sign off but on hold due to unforeseeable circumstances like weather, boss order, reliever side problem etc.however, it's important that the seaman still stay in focus and carry out the jobs.

    and trust me, as a girlfren/wife, please dont start angry/crying and make the situation worse.
    it would only spread the problem to whole ship and company HR.gosh..

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  2. Oh, suka lak dgn phrase ni. Eventho kita tidak memaksudkannya...sekurang-kurangnya ia dapat memotivasikan diri kita.

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  3. Ramai seafarers yg ada awek walaupun dah kawin. Inj kisah benar

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    1. Have faith in Allah, hope for the best things from HIM. Pray always that the seafarers' family will always be a happy happy family besides the wife, and the childrens. And btw, to this person, who wrote nonsense, don't you ever dare make fun of us, the seafarer! We have faith in our god! To our family shall we love, and for that, please, stop this hatefull comment about seafarer!

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